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by Lauren
Simpson-Green
July 27,
2016
from
FractalEnlightenment Website

'Your fingers
are all made of
the same substance.
They are made up
of similar tissues, cells, atoms,
and at the
deepest level, subatomic particles.
Similarly, when
your experience of reality
becomes more
subtle,
you discover
that everything
is just
different expressions
of one field of
non-dual Being.'
Nirmala
There are various degrees of mindfulness out there,
most of which
interweave mindful analysis and reflection of one's life with
pure presence through meditation practices such as repetitive
work, yoga and silent Vipassana.
But there is one thread
to the mindful patchwork that is becoming increasingly popular:
that of
Non-duality...
The word duality
conjures the Buddhist theory of integration and the
path that bridges two supposedly opposite factors, such as
gender, race and religion and dissolves the apparent differences
before your very eyes.
This is a place of complete non-judgment, where the practitioner
takes their celebration of the present moment to extremes, shedding
all knowledge of the law of attraction, past life theory, any
healing technique they have ever experienced, and perhaps most
importantly, their spiritual path up to this moment.
As James Eaton explains,
we will never know if
these things are true, so why bother yourself with the idea of
them?

Dropping, dropping,
constantly letting each moment drop away in strict-honoring-presence
can be daunting for some - especially in such an
ego-centric society - yet for many,
especially the traumatized, it may offer the only way out.
No matter how much analysis, therapy and alternative therapies you
undergo, at the end of the day this level of presence found through
meditation is the thing that's going to help you move
forward, if only to help you cut the cord between forward
and back.
As Gautama Buddha taught it, egolessness is born out
of the raw and unadulterated moment. Non-duality is the path to
egolessness.
Duality causes suffering, or grasping as the
Tibetan Book of the Dead names it,
and it is only when we let go of a dualistic mindset that we might
hope to glimpse an experience of God; the Now.
If humans' flaw is
desire, then the only road to overcoming it is to completely
shut off all past and future longing.
Eckhart
Tolle offers us a path
to enjoy
The Power of Now
through an
understanding of non-duality.
"What appears to
us as space
in our universe
perceived through the mind and the senses
is the
Unmanifested itself, externalized.
It is the 'body'
of God."
So the 'place' of non-duality is actually all around us:
it is the sounds of
the wind through the trees, a dog barking in the distance… all
wisdom advises us to open our ears to silence as that is where
the answers lie.
As
Eckhart Tolle points out, space
has no existence because it doesn't stand out.
Silence has no existence, and nor does the 'Unmanifested' as he puts
it.
And so, to invert our
focus and redirect it from things that stand out, including the
running narrative our minds feed us every second of the day, to
the space in between those things - the non-dualistic space that has
no label or 'existence' - then we will begin to have experiences of
God and the beauty of the present moment.
The only way to experience non-duality is to expand:
To switch your focus
from the ego and the narrative, the thing that stands out, the
internalized single point that is the ego, to the matrix of
silence humming all around us.
This is the advice given
to those who have been traumatized and is the first thing we attempt
during meditation is to ground yourself in the present moment by
shifting your focus to the weight of your body, your breath and the
sounds that you hear right now.
And you will gradually
become the observer...
You actually
become that silence, the gaps in between things, the fabric
of the universe.
If you view life from a
non-dualistic perspective then you have uncovered God's
hiding place.

One practice is to become so present that you question the knowing
you have with yourself that you even possess a brain and internal
organs.
Have you ever actually
seen them...?
These kind of questions, though apparently inane, can cause trippy
flickers in our perceptions and cause us to gain huge insight into
the nature of presence.
All these things we are
taught and swallow, but,
how can we ever know
for a fact they are true?
The moment it almost
becomes too much is when you're realizing that you have no knowing
that your children are sleeping in the very next room.
You can't see them, you have the memory that you put them to bed and
that you even have children, but if they're not before your eyes, if
they're simply part of the narrative in your mind then,
how can you know for
sure...?
In a place of
non-duality,
reality becomes ever so much more
fun. If not a little scary.
Another method is to do what scares you to the max.
If connection scares
you, try looking into other people's eyes and don't let yourself
look away.
Let the dualistic
layers peel away and you will encounter your fears in their
purest form.
In fifteen minutes, if done honestly you could uncover your
deepest fears and bring them to the surface.
This is healing in its
most intense form!
It's addictive, and
sometimes so much more rewarding than sitting in silence or
participating in more traditional forms of meditation.
Non-duality can also give a nod in the right direction to higher
vibrations when it comes to bending the law of attraction.
This materialistic fad has almost become a dirty word (or, to be
precise, three dirty words) in the spiritual community.
And perhaps it is when
you're using it to get filthy rich.

Perhaps the true art of
honoring the law of attraction is to,
recognize the energy
you're pumping out, recognize the form of the energy of what you
want to attract, then dissolve the two and let your higher self
decide.
If our higher selves are
part of the Unmanifested to use Tolle's term, then it is a
part of the innate wisdom of the universe and therefore 'knows' so
much more than our rabbit racing minds running in circles.
To give it to God, we have no end goal in sight but simply
chose how we play the present moment by changing our energy...
The present moment is
not the interchangeable thing we need to concern ourselves with,
but how much we enjoyed it.
The present moment is
a place of non-duality.
We only have to
remember to find it...
"There is
a time to live
and a time to die
but never to reject the moment."
Lao Tzu
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