It's easy to tether to victimhood sometimes.
This becomes even more true when there has been some sort of suffering experienced by several generations in your lineage. Trauma imprints itself and then transfers epigenetically.
That is why the work of healing is something that can heal the trauma and suffering of your ancestors just as much as it can help you heal yourself.
In order to overcome continuously defaulting to victim consciousness, there really is only one simple change you need to make.
However, all of that can
be resolved with a mind shift.
Just because something traumatic happens to us that causes suffering does not automatically mean it's our fault.
A better way to explain the attraction principle involves alignment.
Given the attraction principle that ties into reality creation via mindset, there is something you can tell yourself, as an affirmation, to overcome feeling like a victim.
This is a powerful affirmation that Stephen R. Covey, author of the book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, shared years ago.
You can overcome your limits when you realize that,
The difference between an ordinary person and an awakened one, manifests in how they respond to life's inevitable ups and downs.
Let's face it:
There will undoubtedly be times we drop into a lower energetic state that lines us up with something we wouldn't usually want to match up with, yet we do because we've been stressed out or overwhelmed energetically somehow.
That's perfectly normal and OK.
However, where the bulk
of our work normally lies in realizing that we have the power to
choose to respond in whatever way we want to, in any given
However, once you make the mind shift where you have the power to shift your personal experience in Reality, then you will soon stop defaulting to victim consciousness.
You will catch yourself
before the energetic blueprint of something you genuinely want to
avoid becomes too strong.