December 11, 2014
In life we develop a variety of skills and master the
characteristics of archetypes and polarities so that we can reunite
them in ourselves to recover our wholeness.
Even some of the most valuable and empowering
spiritual teachings can be taken to an extreme or out of context and
lead to unhealthy patterns.
The modern Western society has pushed people toward
division rather than integration of these aspects of ourselves. We
are taught to be logical and linear in thinking and neglect our
intuition in some contexts and to go with our feelings and dismiss
critical thinking in other contexts.
Science oriented endeavors tend to over-rely on linear thinking and discourage consideration of intuitive knowing or non-measurable experiences. In the various forms of spirituality that may appear to transcend the structures of organized religion there is still a challenge with finding balance.
Some encourage fully letting go of the "ego" self in
order to access some higher reality. Others focus on a strict
lifestyle or a complete commitment toward serving others. These
approaches can help individuals develop certain archetypes, but do
not in themselves promote full integration and wholeness.
Women are encouraged to see themselves as "goddesses"
and the problems of the world are blamed on patriarchal dominance.
While it is valuable to honor ourselves, whether we exist as male or
female in our human form, the roots of the polarization and
dysfunctions in the world involve the imbalances generated by both
polarities in their non-integrated state.
Things were initially peaceful and harmonious with those beings, however this all changed when some of the "gods" from the stars came and manipulated the DNA of the Earth humans to create separate genders and limit the perceptive abilities of these humans.
The Earth humans would become disconnected from their attunement to nature and their telepathic and telempathic abilities. They would have to develop spoken and written languages and rely on a more limited range of sensory input to cope with their environment. This descent of humanity into separation and polarization has provided a playing field for many spiritual lessons.
Many of those lessons involve balancing the
characteristics of the genders.
Women who call themselves "goddess" and blame men for social problems are less likely now to be denounced for this, though in past eras and even in some current cultures women would be persecuted for empowering themselves or criticizing men.
Both of those attitudes where one gender is denigrated contain an imbalance. While empowering the healthy expression of the feminine aspect we need to also empower the healthy expression of the masculine aspect rather than to suppress the masculine. When we perceive the distortions in others we can also be motivated to take responsibility for facing the distortions within ourselves.
In past eras it was common for women to be seen as overly emotional and prone to "hysterics" and irrational actions that could harm society.
In the modern era it has become common to see men as lacking sensitivity and compassion and prone to destructive actions based on their over-focus on masculine exercise of power.
Itís about time we start to own up to the shadow
sides of both genders and work toward balancing male and female
archetypes within ourselves rather than seeking to place blame on
one gender or to exalt one gender over the other. Reacting to
masculine dominance by shifting to feminine dominance cannot bring a
Men, due to the polarized nature of the body and social programming, tend to suppress the feminine aspects within themselves, allowing them to be more inclined to carry the masculine to a dysfunctional extreme.
Women often do the same thing, suppressing their masculine aspect and distorting the feminine qualities.
Sometimes, women can overcompensate and become overly
masculine and suppress their feminine side, and men may
overcompensate and become overly feminine and suppress the masculine
side. Having experience living through many lifetimes that include
both genders gives us the opportunity to learn to balance the
Advaita traditions and the Western
"A Course In Miracles" are examples of teachings that guide the
seeker to recognize the existence of an undivided awareness that
underlies all Creation and is from that perspective more "real" than
the physical reality that we experience in our human lives. Many
find this realization liberating and are eager to align their
consciousness with that reality in every moment.
We are faced here with the task of developing discernment and applying it in this level of reality. Itís nice to know that ultimately All is One and One is All and our Souls come from the same essence, yet that perception of Oneness is counter-productive for the moment if we are driving our car and unable to discern that there is a light of the color red, yellow, or green.
Physical existence necessitates learning within the context of polarities, elements, and archetypes, and using discernment.
Living without boundaries and giving "love"
unconditionally may sound nice, yet in a context where there are
abusive and vampiric entities it is not a sign of spiritual maturity
to fail to set boundaries or take steps to prevent being assaulted.
They may develop a fragmented personality, where
there is a sweet, gentle facade that can fall apart when the person
is triggered, leading to overreaction to perceived mistreatment as
the suppressed anger and hurt arise.
There is much here for us to learn about ourselves.
While we embrace transcendent truths about spiritual existence and
creation, we can also learn to master ourselves and address the
challenges of material existence in more balanced ways. Integrating
the dualistic perspective with the non-dualistic perspective brings
wholeness to our experience.
When a child is called rude names or someone grabs his/her toy that child may get angry and have a tantrum.
The more experienced, mature adult will usually be able to handle this situation with more calmness and less distress. This is analogous to how a less experienced soul might react to Earth situations versus how a more experienced soul would. As we evolve we are able to understand both polarities and respect the purpose of both in the enfoldment of life.
We donít need to define one as better than the other
or to reject the existence of anything or anyone. Creation contains
all possibilities and we can allow for them all to exist while
focusing on what we align our own consciousness with.
Finding a balance between love and fear is important.
Love fosters giving and allowing energy to flow, while fear fosters the establishment of boundaries and separating from that which could cause harm. Without fear to alert us to danger we would be unable to address relevant threats in this reality.
The dark side disowns love and empathy while the light side disowns fear and judgment. Yet, to be whole and access our full creative potential we must be able to integrate all of these aspects so they can be applied with wisdom and balance.
Souls that progress through human incarnations can
become truly masterful creators, as there are deep, challenging
lessons learned in human life.