Fear is what we learn.
The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and prejudices
and the acceptance of love back in our hearts.
Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth.
To be consciously aware of it,
to experience love in ourselves and others,
is the meaning of life.
Meaning does not lie in things.
There are no easy transitions for walk-ins. The beginning always comes dramatically and traumatically.
For a soul to come into these bodies, the soul which is already there has to want to leave. For many people, that is a wise decision. The body may be maimed in a horrible way through car accidents or other terrible events, or the person may be on the verge of suicide or actually try to kill themselves.
These are the kinds of bodies the new 'soul' takes over to nourish and use to do their earthly work.
Souls normally come into bodies of infants, and spend many years growing and learning languages and history, and all that stuff, but a walk-in comes into an older body and takes over the memories of the body, bypassing all that school learning.
Sometimes that's a good thing, but its hard at the same time, because the body usually hasn't had the type of learning that the new 'soul' needs and relationships the body has had may not be of the type that the new 'soul' needs either and many walk-ins, if they are married, end up in divorce.
Sometimes they don't even
know the people in the family they come into and that's even more
devastating on the walk-in.
For some time Ruth went into meditation to confirm whether or not the person was a walk-in, but eventually there were so many people writing for information, she no longer had time to treat everyone individually.
I have one of her
letters, handwritten by her, telling me she was swamped with
requests and couldn't give the individual attention anymore.
So why is it so relatively unknown, and even more so, misunderstood, and even denied by others who don't believe the process occurs naturally in the spiritual life of human beings.
If the Soul chooses to walk out, an agreement is made with another Soul to walk-in and continue the embodiment.
This is not possession.
It is not a requirement that a person be a walk-in to ascend. It is
simply an individual agreement and another way of entering onto the
Here is an overview of
There may be a feeling of someone hanging around or loss of time. The new Soul is getting the feel of the body.
Remember, some beings
coming in have never been in physical bodies and may need to get the
feel of being so densified. The new Soul is also reviewing
the DNA encodements and the existing energy patterns stored
in all of the bodies and deciding what to keep or release.
This is the personality's
way of interpreting that a transfer is about to occur.
This allows the new Soul
to more quickly integrate to a deeper level. Because all of the
body's systems are disrupted from the habitual patterns by trauma
they are, therefore, more receptive to the new Soul.
Also, now there are
support systems and integration services for walk-ins so the
rationale of changing through trauma is unnecessary. More and more
walk-ins are fully conscious through the whole transfer.
The etheric and physical
bodies are what keep some continuity.
This neutrality often means a feeling of detachment from emotionally significant people such as:
The old issues, unresolved situations and personal difficulties of the previous incarnate are often easy for the new walk-in to handle.
They are likely to leave the unsatisfying marriage or unfulfilling job that the previous occupant could not resolve. Much to the dismay of the people around them, a new walk-in often goes through strong changes in personality.
The personality is
completely malleable at this time and the new soul tries on new
character traits until a good combination to serve the new life goal
is found. Also, changes in personal preferences are common such as
liking different foods, colors, clothes and lifestyle than the
Because the emotional and mental bodies are "new", they have not yet been imprinted from the environment. Like a baby, a walk-in is a sponge for the emotions, traits and beliefs of the people around them.
It is vitally important
that a new walk-in choose carefully the people they spend time with
for they will be imprinted with those people's qualities and biases,
good and bad.
This can be very tough because those people were usually emotionally significant to the previous soul, i.e., mate, parents, family and friends. They may not realize or believe that a transfer of Souls has occurred.
When these well-meaning people project their emotions and pictures of the old occupant on to a walk-in, an overlay of the old energy called "ghosting" occurs in the new energy bodies.
Clairvoyantly, it looks
like a double image. This is so stressful to the physical body and
personality that the walk-in may become ill or feel quite crazy.
If the body strongly believes that it is dying, it may begin to shut down the entire system.
Also, the body may reject the new Soul at a cellular level, much like it can reject a new heart or liver. This usually manifests as rheumatoid arthritis symptoms and the pain, swelling and inflammation can be sudden and severe.
In extreme cases, partial
paralysis can occur.
Sudden opening may make a person feel crazy, disoriented or spacey. They may be channeling constantly and have some difficulty knowing their own energy.
As strange as it may
seem, it is really helpful for a new walk-in to wear hats to
protect their crown chakra.
But the process of releasing the dysfunctionality and obsolete pictures of reality of the previous occupant may take years. Strong grief states are common as the body releases these old energies.
The trick is not to
resist and express the grief fully as it comes up. Then it seems to
As frustrating as this feeling can be, having a veil over the life goal for a year or so can be a blessing.
It allows time for
integration of the body, personality, and the lifetime.
Often, "burnout" occurs
and they may become sick at about the one-year point.
There are many reasons
for a Soul to walk-in but the main one is that it is usually quicker
to integrate a new Soul into a new body than it is to grow a body
It takes time for the physical body to work through feelings of dying, rejection, abandonment and grief.
But when the body
consciousness understands that the walk-in Soul consciously chose
this body, loves this body, and is willing to work as a partner with
this body, then miracles can happen.